Looking back over the conference experience one of the most perplexing challenges I faced as a first time attendee was balance related. There are so many ways to use your time at a conference like this: networking, exploring, talking to vendors, learning, sleeping, and eating (these last two are important, too). The balance I struggled with was of a different nature, however.
My greatest struggle was determining how best to spend my time networking. Being new to both the profession and the ICMA circuit, I was naturally drawn to other young professionals in my age range, as we had a lot of similar hurdles to face. Swapping stories and experiences was fun and enlightening. Since I teach part time, I was also drawn to the crowd of students, many eager to find their first position in their government careers. I hope these bright eyed and bushy tailed young professionals will continue to build relationships with me into the future.
At the same time, the drive to meet managers at the top of their game; people with whom to network and establish learning relationships, was also strong. For whatever reason, I don’t know that I did the best job of balancing these competing interests. In some cases it was the sheer intimidation of walking up to a group of managers, likely long-standing friends in the midst of conversation, and introducing myself with something more meaningful than just “hi, I’m soandso, from suchandsuch”. As a result I spent the bulk of my “free” time at the conference with peers, no doubt an important aspect of networking at the conference. I worry that it was at the detriment of meeting the current crop of leaders, however. I did meet a good number of City Managers and executives whom I would feel honored to call upon for advice and leadership, but I think I walked away with fewer senior professional contacts than I should have.
I wonder how many other folks, new and old, found that they spent more time networking with peers than with mentors or potential mentees. Next time around, I think I may organize a strategyto balance that time a bit more.
Posted by AmateurParent 
